total submission

April 29, 2018

Respect is everything. We must respect limits, safe words, all boundaries, but above all we must respect the individuality of the submissive. Respect is earned. Fear is not respect. Nor is power over another human being. Instilling fear in a submissive will never achieve a state of total submission. Ultimately, fear will cause fragmentation of the relationship. It will lead to abuse. That must never happen.

Positive Domination is a state in which calm prevails: trust is engendered with listening and learning. Feedback between dominant and submissive both, a kind of emotional spiral where more is delivered, the more it is received and it becomes in turn a two-way street.

Then both parties win.

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