Stop me if you’ve heard this one – the older, more experienced man; the fresh out of graduate school ingénue. That thankfully, is where the similarities to 50 Shades end. No helicopters, no contracts, no extravagant gifts. There was however, a prolonged build up, mandated by him, which was oddly hot for a girl who was somewhat used to getting what she wanted from the boys she dated. He followed months of using the age gap (13 years) and our status as colleagues (yeah, OK, not a great idea) as deterrents with a serious and stern conversation where he explained his sexual proclivities over drinks. Instead of being appropriately horrified or cowed, I took a deep breath, finished my martini and blushingly confessed to having “borrowed” my dad’s copy of the Story of O when I was sixteen and having some interesting (but untested) proclivities of my own. He kissed me for the first time that night and two interludes of vanilla sex later (actually worthy of a story for another time), finally agreed to initiate me into this world I thought only existed for weirdos and freaks, not people like us.

Exotic Eva

My First DS Experience

Submission

March 31, 2019

Submission is not about what your dominant does TO you…it’s about what you do FOR your dominant.

Rika
Uniquely Rika

International Bondage Day

March 24, 2019

Yes,  yes,  boys & girls,  I know the big day is tomorrow – not today. But I ask you, what doughnut chose a Monday for games of restraint, for role play and rough shagging? A freakin’ Monday! Does that make any sense?

No, it doesn’t.

So, Peedeel and friends are celebrating this International event a day early – who knows, our activities might well stretch into Monday? It’s all a question of stamina!

Whatever your personal feelings, International Bondage Day does give you an opportunity to try something new (if you haven’t played bondage games before). Escape the vanilla. Come over to the darkside for one day. Boys, find that your loved one actual tastes of every dark thought you’ve ever had; girls, submit, be passive or walk in to darkness and dominate your partner, become their mistress whose every wish must be obeyed – or else! Discover yourself: find you are as disturbing as you are beautiful.

Always remember: sex starts in the mind.

Peedeel
24th March 2019

not quite human

February 17, 2019

Erotic submission is a limit-experience, beyond which something else comes into play, something not quite human.

Jonathan Kemp
Twentysix

Domination

January 27, 2019

Domination, I have argued, is a twisting of the bonds of love. Domination does not repress the desire for recognition; rather, it enlists and transforms it. Beginning in the breakdown of the tension between self and other, domination proceeds through the alternate paths of identifying with or submitting to powerful others who personify the fantasy of omnipotence. For the person who takes this route to establishing his own power, there is an absence where the other should be. This void is filled with fantasy material in which the other appears so dangerous or so weak – or both – that he threatens the self and must be controlled. A vicious cycle begins: the more the other is subjugated, the less he is experienced as a human subject and the more distance or violence the self must deploy against him.

Jessica Benjamin
The Bonds of Love: Psychoanalysis, Feminism, & the Problem of Domination

jerk himself off

January 27, 2019

He couldn’t even jerk himself off: there was no one to give him permission to come.

Casey K. Cox
Be My Boy

what are they doing to that poor boy

With him on his knees and his hands restrained I’ll stroke his dick until he gets very close to orgasm, and then when I think he’s right on the edge, I’ll let go and watch. I’ll wait about 20 seconds and if no semen comes out, start again. If you’ve done this perfectly, his semen will leak out about 10-15 seconds AFTER you stopped stroking it. He’ll be left sexually frustrated, but you actually DID give him an orgasm, its not your fault he didn’t feel it!

Bridgid Hargreaves
Dark Matters

bite you hard

August 5, 2018

I want to tie you down and blindfold you, then run my teeth over every inch of your body and mark it, bite you hard. I want to talk dirty to you, call you a dirty little whore, remind you how filthy and needy and easy you are until you’re hard and whining for me to touch you. I want to pound you into the mattress as I stroke your cock, fucking you hard and relentlessly until you’re crying for me to let you cum. God, I want to hear you beg for it, beg like a little slut to cum.

Gray Wolf

This body has known the darkest of sensual and carnal delights. This skin is etched with livid lash-strokes reflecting beliefs and personal tastes held for years to be the central core of my sexual being. I am my scars; my scars are me.

Gray Wolf

dirty thoughts

July 1, 2018

My sweet, complacent puppy awaits the dark, dirty thoughts that fill my mind –