great poetry…

The spirit of great poetry transcends not merely the form but the language in which it finds expression. 

J.A.K. Thomson – Shakespeare and the Classics 

As she lowers herself onto his face…

For the kinky female led relationship, there is one activity that should not be overlooked, because it can play an important role in strengthening the D/s aspect for both the dominant and the submissive.  Many women may be hesitant to sit on a submissives face, and prefer he gets on his knees to perform oral, however, there could be massive benefits that are missed because of that hesitancy. 

Facesitting has a similar impact on both partners, as pegging does. Pegging humbles a submissive, and empowers a dominant, because it’s a complete role reversal. He’s the vulnerable one, he’s being penetrated, and he’s experiencing what it means to not be in control as she thrusts into him at her own pace. He’s helpless to stop her, and the first few times this is done, the power exchange felt is very intense. 

Knowing that she can take him with her cock at any time, just because she feels like it, brings out extra submission in him. Especially when she penetrates him when he’s not in the mood, her dominance over him becomes very real. As she discovers her power through this, she comes to enjoy the strap on, and can have orgasms of her own, just by using it on him. Pegging can be used as a disciplinary device as well and is often more effective than painful punishments. 

Ordering him to get her cock, and help her put it on, then taking him with it can be very effective especially if he’s kept in chastity. Pegging can often be the only way he’s allowed sexual pleasure. It’s a complete shift in what he’s used to as a male, and that’s why it’s so powerful in the D/s dynamic.  

Facesitting can have the same effect, except, it doesn’t require role reversal, and instead, celebrates each other for who they are. It doesn’t create an inferior or superiority complex, but it really does compliment the dominant and submissive roles perfectly. While seeing a submissive on his knees is a pretty sight, facesitting takes it to a whole new level because of the psychological aspect. 

The idea of being under her, looking up at her beauty as she lowers herself onto his face, promotes some of the strongest submissive feelings a submissive can have. It’s also the perfect place for her to be, as she can control exactly where she wants him to pleasure her, be it the front or back door. The ability to grind on his face is also a bonus. 

She will feel like she owns him, and the view she can have, facing his body, can be of great amusement, as she gets to play with his body, perhaps out of discipline, or pleasure, while he is busy pleasuring her. It’s particularly powerful if his arms are tied down and he’s truly out of control. She can remain on his face for as long as she wishes, until she’s completely satisfied. 

Her scent will intoxicate him, and it will make him addicted to her more so than he was before. The feeling of powerlessness being under her will have him deep in subspace, more obedient than ever. Even more so than pegging. Pegging, chastity, and facesitting all compliment each other beautifully, and help to completely own him. It’s not just about owning his sex life. It’s also about owning exactly how he can give her pleasure. Facesitting becomes a luxury for him.  

She can have all sorts of fun with facesitting as well. Facesitting makes him eager to provide oral pleasure, but she can facesit him and take even that pleasure away with a face dildo. She can have good penetrative sex with him, using his face, and his only reward is her scent and fluids on his face. He’s quite literally an instrument of her pleasure, in total submission. Completely in his place. 

This opens her up to being able to use him in any way she pleases. Her pleasure becomes his reward. She becomes sacred to him. His face is her throne. There is no greater purpose for him, than when she is on his face. She is his universe. Completely owned, and totally devoted. 

J.M. Scott – Practical FLR (Female Led Relationship) 

 

things they found extremely weird…

The silly thing to do, I think, is dismiss things we can’t explain or that we don’t have any way of measuring. Maybe, it is a phenomena of brain disturbance. But, on the other hand, many people have experienced things they found extremely weird. Maybe we just have to shut the fuck up and be quiet to see ghosts? 

Jeanette Winterson – Interviewed by Eva Wiseman 

Primordial ethereal shadow of sexuality

Lilith, originally a spirit of hostile winds in the Arabian Peninsula became a devourer of children, a succubus and finally a Queen of vampires. First wife of Adam according to Ben Sira and a hostile demon Queen according to The Zohar.  

Lilith was a foreign spirit, and intruder, charms were made to ward her off – and angels were sent to stop her breeding lilins into the world. The angelic messengers had to make a truce and an agreement – she was here to stay. She rose from being a spirit fated to die, like a dinosaur – but still her legacy and prominence spread across the worlds as history advanced. The more bloodshed and havoc we find – the more Lilith we also find.  

Lilith rose to prominence in the world from the shades of storms and bad augurs. Over time she has been associated with the Moon, with Venus, the mother of Djinn and the mother of Sidhe (‘fairies’). She has been approached as a succubus – or their mother, as a Spectre and a Sorceress. From Sumer and Chaldea she spread her wings over Edom, Syria, Arabia and Europe. Blavatsky saw her as a primordial ethereal shadow of sexuality – and it is from her theosophy we find the modern ideas that see her as an icon of the suppressed woman that seeks dominion.   

Nicholaj – Rosh ha Sitan and the transitions of Lilith 

A Thousand Flamingos

in the afterglow 
of an evening rain 
 
i lay down 
in the grass 
and think of you 
 
my body aches 
like an after-kiss 
 
breaking in soft fires 
and wildflowers 
 
my dear, 
i will always be 
this tender for you. 

Sanober Khan  

Mental images are potent things…

To say that a thing is imaginary is not to dispose of it in the realm of mind, for the imagination, or the image making faculty, is a very important part of our mental functioning. An image formed by the imagination is a reality from the point of view of psychology; it is quite true that it has no physical existence, but are we going to limit reality to that which is material? We shall be far out of our reckoning if we do, for mental images are potent things, and although they do not actually exist on the physical plane, they influence it far more than most people suspect    –    Dion Fortune 

She looks at them…

She does this thing with her eyes, it’s a trick, it drives men crazy; she looks at them, stares, her eyes bore into them, and I imagine they feel seen in a way they’ve never been seen before, I’ve tried doing it myself, in front of the mirror, but when I do it, it just looks like I’m squinting. 

Linn Ullmann – Unquiet 

Sex interrupted by conversation….

I want to fuck and be fucked, to be so interested in them that the sex is interrupted by conversation, and then the conversation by sex. Maybe I just want intimacy, the tactile kind. The getting-to-know-you-from-the-inside-out kind. The three-fingers-deep, mouth-tasting-of-you kind. The I’m-hungry-let’s-make-toast-at-three-in-the-morning-so-we-can-keep-going kind. The lesbian kind. 

 
Tilly Lawless – Nothing But My Body 

Were they pushed or did they fall?

Are Russians the clumsiest race in the world, or is it only their senior people? So many oligarchs, generals, politicians, and even federal judges have fallen to their deaths from apartment or hotel windows over recent months. Is it time now for Russia to ban the construction of any buildings above a single storey high?   

secret language

Poetry remakes and prolongs language; every poetic language begins by being a secret language, that is, the creation of a personal universe, of a completely closed world. The purest poetic act seems to re-create language from an inner experience that … reveals the essence of things.  

Mircea Eliade – Shamanism: Archaic Techniques of Ecstasy